Incinerating Dad
If this were a movie scene, I thought,
as we stood in the parking lot waiting our turn,
there would befall a tempest.
And strangely, suddenly, then it came:
a downpour— heavy, heavy rain.
The funeral parlor people provided
umbrellas to usher us inside—
to the furnace room,
running on a strict schedule
we had been admonished not to miss—
two ovens in constant use, no frills,
Like a boiler room, just a concrete floor
we stood on, till along came Dad,
in a cardboard box that was briefly opened
so Sandi could scissor a piece of his hair
in case of genetic curiosity.
There he lay, in a plain robe,
or gown, looking extremely small.
They asked if anyone had any last words,
and I, as the eldest, offered these:
He was a good father and we are lucky
to have been his children.
In he went.